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tdobson | 9 years ago | on: How I Built a Custom Camper Van (2015)

Yeah. It rules out some people. It's attractive to some people. Clearly rules oneself out from others.

It doesn't really matter because with dating - you only need to win once.

tdobson | 9 years ago | on: How I Built a Custom Camper Van (2015)

I live in a van.[1]

I started out in the van with a girlfriend, then our relationship came to an end (the van probably helped it last a bit longer) and so I got back into dating.

I'd say dating with the van was easier than before I had it.

You must lead with it. You have to make sure it's upfront with everyone - you don't bring it up last - it said it all over my OKC profile - and you know - nothing starts conversations like something unusual. It's not for everyone - but the people who opt out - it would't have worked with anyway. The ones that opt in, it's good. Probably the most dangerous people who fetishise your vanlifestyle above the reality. Reality is that there are ups and downs, good things and tradeoffs.

Anyway, I'm now happily in an awesome relationship - and yeah - the van isn't a big deal. It kind of helps - cos she lives a good distance away from many of my friends. :)

[1] https://www.instagram.com/tdobsonnet/

tdobson | 11 years ago | on: Ask HN: Which dedicated server provider do you currently use?

Hey Sam, I work for http://bytemark.co.uk

What are you trying to do? What's it for?

There's a whole bunch of pros and cons to dedicated servers, bang for buck, uptime, customer service, networking...

If you explain what you're planning on using it for, I might be able to tailor some suggestions as to what might suit you best - always happy to offer helpful suggestions - even if it's not about our products.

tdobson | 13 years ago | on: Ask HN: Please recommend a good UK VPS and dedicated servers host

Hey, it's Tim from Bytemark.

If you've any questions or queries - do give feel free to give me a shout - mention my name in any email to enquiries (at) support.bytemark.co.uk and I'll happily talk to you directly.

People may also be interested in our new VPS platform - http://bigv.io - if anyone wants a signup link and £40 credit, let me know.

Have a good friday! :)

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