typefourpd | 5 years ago | on: The unsettling truth about the ‘Mostly Harmless’ hiker
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typefourpd | 5 years ago | on: The unsettling truth about the ‘Mostly Harmless’ hiker
This is indicative of a personality disorder. My father had BPD and behaved this way. My mother was borderline and behaved this way.
People like this do not behave abusively towards their loved ones all the time, it's pretty on-and-off. The loved one is typically a dependent or avoidant. They remain in the relationship because they need the positive affirmations, and healthy people do not want to be with a dependent or avoidant. So, no choice but to suffer the negativity also.
It's clear that this man developed a personality disorder as the result of suffering abuse as a child.
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I agree that my assumption was based on hearsay. Fundamentally, I don't believe that children who are loved and protected by their primary caregivers shoot themselves in the stomach in an attempt to die.