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Best book on body language and just general cues?

6 points| superman1234 | 11 years ago | reply

Recently got interested in the subject and did an Amazon search for books in the field, but the top results seemed a bit 'fluffy'... What book(s) would you recommend?

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[+] macguyver|11 years ago|reply
It would be more useful if you stated your specific interest of the body language / general cues.

Eg., Is it for...

dating women? making sales / closing deals? making friends? spotting liars?

Understanding your intent will help.

Reading / communicating with body language is an art, much like learning to play a musical instrument or speaking a language. It takes study, practice and feedback to truly learn it well. While a book / written list of words cannot replace the actual body language, here are some general universal cues, just a few that came to mind:

Arms crossed: closed / defensive Hand on chin: thinking / contemplation Leaning in / touching you: signs of interest

Usually, it is a group of cues that forms a picture of what someone is really thinking. An individual cue by itself can be unreliable and should be taken with a grain of salt.

[+] KNoureen|11 years ago|reply
I have only fleeting interest in the subject so I've only read one titled "What every body is saying" by Joe Navarro. It did teach me a few things, but didn't really strengthen my interest or desire to go more to more depth in the field.
[+] gbertb|11 years ago|reply
Check out udemy, they've got a few good ones there.