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firemanx | 3 years ago | on: What happens when babies are left to cry it out?

Read the article, and many of the comments here. I have a hard time squaring a lot of the hard and fast rules against my own experience. Certainly one persons life can’t detract from large scale statistics. However, I have 6 children. They have all responded to methods of behavioral training in wildly different ways.

My oldest two could not do sleep training. 10 months of trying for almost every night and they did not just adapt. My middle daughter embraced it after a single night. My adopted middle son didn’t need it at all and was naturally “good” at sleeping. My youngest daughter and son will fall asleep right away if around someone, but otherwise will stay up for hours (but never cried about it).

Again, one family experience but each child has their own needs and responses. I’ve never found a single method that works universally in any aspect of parenting.

Except ice cream. They all seem to love that.

firemanx | 3 years ago | on: Recommendations for Japan Travel

I visited Japan for the first time a month ago, and basically followed this advice. Got lost in Tokyo. Well as lost as you can be considering Apple or Google Maps and SUICA are pretty much universal wherever I went. And cash.

Didn’t speak the language, didn’t try to make people speak English - asked for the Japanese menu and used Google translate to figure it out.

Kyoto was incredible.

firemanx | 5 years ago | on: Microsoft backs Epic in court filing

This was mentioned in one of the other threads about this - but you can purchase XBox games outside the Microsoft Store platform just fine - Best Buy, Amazon, Walmart, even resell on eBay, and Microsoft doesn't take a cut.

Apple does not allow for this model.

firemanx | 6 years ago | on: Ask HN: Who is hiring? (March 2020)

Sentinel | Bellevue, WA | ONSITE (Will Consider Remote) | https://www.sentinelcsg.com/careers

Sentinel is a cutting edge privacy technology company changing how organizations of all sizes think about privacy and compliance. We are building the next generation of privacy tools and already work with some of the largest companies in Technology, Retail and Manufacturing. Come join our team and play a key part in how the world addresses the needs of privacy for organizations and consumers alike!

Some of the technologies you'll work with: Azure, AWS, Hasura (GraphQL), Java / Spring Boot, Vue, NGinx, Postgres, ElasticSearch, and Spark. We're expanding into AI / ML scenarios as well.

We're looking for full-stack engineers, back-end engineers and anyone currently focused on the privacy space. Our careers page lists Java Engineers but willing to consider anyone with a development background if you're interested.

Reach out to me, chris at sentinelcsg.com.

firemanx | 10 years ago | on: On Marrying the Wrong Person

My wife had me buy her a poster this year which I have found to be particularly profound in a variety of life's situations. It says, simply "The grass is greener where you water it."

We've since had it framed.

firemanx | 10 years ago | on: Killing Off Wasabi

> Building the era of custom tools just for your company, only to do specific jobs is long gone.

Isn't that the biography of 99% of the open source projects in the big data and distributed processing world? I understand they are open now, but didn't they start as custom tools just for a single company?

It seems like the "error" that Fog Creek made was to not open source Wasabi, though even that seems more like a hindsight has 20/20 vision kind of thing, as open sourcing a project is no small feat, especially to a small software company.

firemanx | 11 years ago | on: Show HN: Started.in Seattle – 60+ Video Profiles of startups in Seattle

I was expressly hired at my current gig (re-startup) in Pioneer Square to migrate from an existing .NET solution to JVM on AWS with a heavy Cassandra component (all on Linux). I started a company up here some years ago and we opted for the Windows platform due to the availability of talent. I think that has changed in recent years, and I feel like the Seattle startup scene these days has a really healthy balance of a lot of different technologies.

firemanx | 12 years ago | on: Why Loneliness Matters in the Social Age

I'm 31. I was 25 when I got married, which was also the same year the company I co-founded hit the skids and eventually a brick wall. That first year was really rough on us (we started with 1 child and had another in the middle of that year), but we survived and watching that company burn was one of the most valuable life lessons I've ever had. We've had another two kids since then, and I've learned a few other things along the way.

Before I was married, all of those fears and anxieties ruled my life. I think that's partly what attracted me to the startup world and ultimately to starting that company. I wanted to chase my ambitions and fight that feeling of loneliness. However, the great lesson I learned from that company, and ultimately from the last few years of marriage and kids is that you won't be alone when you choose to value the people you love over achievements you earn, stuff you buy, or even just stuff you work really hard on. I poured it on with the 90 and 100 hour weeks the last 6 months of that company and in the end the company crumbled and my hard work left me with nothing but bitterness toward my creation (I eventually got past the bitterness). Today I invest that time in my wife and my kids, and they are my world to me. They're my best friends. There's no earning their love, but the time I spend with them is never wasted. I don't get through the week, having prioritized them over other things, and think to myself "man, I really wish I'd spent an extra 20 hours on that personal project" that will never do anything for my personal fulfillment beyond some temporary ego boost.

Now. That's not to say I don't still love the startup and technology world. I do. And I still have those personal projects. And that professional community. I also love working hard on stuff that pushes the envelope. But the funny thing is that ever since I put that part of myself in a bounded box I've enjoyed it more and been more productive. There isn't the sense of having to keep up, and yet I'm still able to. Consequently I'm happier at work and since I don't draw my personal worth from it, I can take setbacks and move on and still enjoy it.

I don't know that everyone should get married, but it seems to me that, based on everyone I've ever known, that you best fight loneliness by surrounding yourself with people who will stick by you regardless of job, religion, social status , health, or anything else. To me, the question to ask is - if the world fell apart right now, would the people you prioritize still be with you?

firemanx | 12 years ago | on: Car Mechanic Dreams Up a Tool to Ease Births

The University of Washington educates midwives alongside do tors and nurses: http://nursing.uw.edu/node/371

My wife's cousin is going through the program right now and will graduate with the equivalent of an MD. She's doing residency at a large hospital in Seattle and did clinical at another in Boise. When she graduates she'll be working adjunct at either another hospital up here, or through Stanford. I'm no medical expert, but I trust her experience and expertise. I'm not sure where you're information is coming from, but I think you may be misinformed.

firemanx | 12 years ago | on: Why is broadband more expensive in the US?

I live in central WA and pay $80 for 100mb symmetric. We have local public utility districts in the central counties of the state that are all interconnected by local fiber optic networks. It's pushed the price of internet access way, way down.

firemanx | 13 years ago | on: Linode hacked, CCs and passwords leaked

That tweet would suggest to me that someone's credit card was stolen via another method and used to purchase Linode services, rather than the other way around. Ie, I don't think that was related to Linode breach.

firemanx | 13 years ago | on: Show HN: My side project – Do I need a visa for...?

I've visited China through Beijing and Hong Kong numerous times over the last couple years, and without a doubt the best way to do it is through a Visa intermediary such as travisa.com or A Briggs (http://www.abriggs.com). I've used others in the past, but we had an emergency trip about a year ago where one of our fellow travelers needed to go at the last minute (ie, we were leaving on Weds, and they decided to go on the Sunday before), and A Briggs helped us get them a passport and the Chinese Visa, and had it waiting at the airport for our departure. They also have agents you deal with directly.

I'll definitely use them again. The point though, is that for a nominal fee, it's just easier to have someone who does visas every day handle the China situation for you, at least in my experience.

firemanx | 13 years ago | on: What it’s like to die

When I took a CPR class a few years back, we were told that the point of "Samaritan CPR" was really just to keep the person going until a first responder got there, but that the chances of survival past 5 or 10 minutes got increasingly low without actual medical attention.

firemanx | 13 years ago | on: What The Rails Security Issue Means For Your Startup

I think the recent Rails, Java, RubyGems and other vulnerability issues have been an absolute boon to the industry. And not just for the increased business I think most security consultants are going to be seeing.

The exploits have happened in ways that have exposed and hammered home the myriad places many applications expose unexpected side channels and larger attack surfaces than you'd think. These issues have opened a broader range of people to vulnerability, and I think opened a lot of people's eyes to the need for a sense of security and what that really means.

Top that with the level of explanation we've seen in at least the Rails and Ruby exploits, it's been a tremendous educational opportunity for a lot of people who will benefit greatly from it, and by proxy their users.

When the idea of a "SQL Injection" first became really prevalent, we saw an uptick in concern for security amongst framework developers, as far as I could tell. I think this will help get some momentum going again.

Speaking as a non-expert on the subject, security is all about a healthy sense of paranoia, across the board :)

firemanx | 13 years ago | on: On Scale of 0 to 500, Beijing’s Air Quality Tops ‘Crazy Bad’ at 755

I found Beijing to have poor air, but not nearly as bad as other places in China. Travel out west to Xi'an, and for much of the year it seems as though you can't even see the sky. I heard it told that living there is equivalent to smoking two packs of cigarettes per day. I don't know if that's true, but anecdotally, spending a few weeks there and I was coughing up some of the nastiest stuff I've ever seen from breathing bad air.

firemanx | 13 years ago | on: Amazon Instant Video on Apple iPhone, iPad, or iPod Touch

We bought a Vizio 42 inch on sale last year for about $300, and it plays everything we've ever needed - Netflix, Amazon, Vudu, Hulu, YouTube, Pandora. It's definitely more expensive than a Roku, but did the trick.

Come to think of it, the Samsung Blu-Ray player we bought the year before also plays all of those services, too.

Both devices have been great - wireless support and smooth interfaces.

firemanx | 13 years ago | on: Peter Thiel, Bill Gates, Khosla fund LightSail Energy in $37M Deal

Thanks for the reply, Danielle.

We are indeed a battery-based system for now, though we aren't necessarily tied to that technology long term. We've focused on building a strength is in flexibility and ability to distribute storage wherever its needed. It's always exciting to see new methods of storage being developed, as I agree with you about the economics of storage. I'm not quite convinced that batteries are an antiquated option just yet (or aren't feasible financially or environmentally, long term, especially as R&D continues to move there as well), but I'm just a lowly software engineer - I'll leave it for the rest of our team to worry about those problems :)

Congratulations on your successes thus far, and good luck for what the future holds!

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